This video clip was part of three generations of women speaking: Vivian’s mother Marianne Balshone, Vivian herself (above), and her daughter Ariel Garten. See complete talk on YouTube. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at http://ted.com/tedx Video by TEDx. Dress designed and crafted by Reiss.